Archive for September 10th, 2009

What is scary about blogs

Thursday, September 10th, 2009

 It has only been five days since I started this blog and already I have this scary feeling that I will never be able to keep up.  I have always considered myself a woman never at a loss for words and I am certain that my friends would agree.  But….all of a sudden I am sitting here staring at my computer screen and feeling helpless – no words, no topics, just blank!  In my mind writing a blog would be fun.  I have so many things rattling around in my head I thought it would be easy to drop them onto the page.  Well, I have found it isn’t that easy, it’s scary.

I read somewhere that if you start a blog you really should write something on it regularly.  Like, I guess, maybe every other day, twice a week?  Once a week?  It is scary thinking that at least once a week you have to write.  That is very different from just writing whenever you want to, or feel like it, or are super inspired.  It feels like a deadline.  Pressure.  Tension.  Stress.  I must pray harder that I’ll even remember to write something – once a week – maybe twice a week.

And then, there is this sense of failure.  I hate thinking I have failed at something.  That is scary.  We are raised to be successful.  I mean, your parents (well, at least mine) didn’t make a habit of telling you that they are so proud of you for being such a failure at ….you fill in the blanks.  So, if I don’t make a deadline, can’t think of something to write, I have failed.  Scary.  Sad.

Finally, there are those 500 words.  What if I don’t have 500 words?  What if I write more?  Well, God bless daughters – mine just told me I didn’t have to write all 500 words.  Amen, amen!  And, maybe you’ll forgive me if I go over 500 words – once it a while?  Thanks and Peace!